Saturday, 15 March 2008

Tearmann na Gealai

Summer Solstice
Moon Lodge Gathering

Weekend Event: Sat. & Sun,
21 & 22 June 2008
11am Sat -12pm Sun
Venue: To be Announced

Women Only
This is a nature based, rustic gathering.

Special Gifts/Entertainment/Crafts/Prestine Nature

Scrumptous vegetarian cusine and lodging provided.
Booking is essential,
Space is limited



For full details e-mail: ofcommonground@gmail.com

The Moon Lodge is when women come together to celebrate the ancient ceremonies of honoring our menstrual cycles, communicating with the ancestors, sharing our gifts and passing the women's wisdom on to our daughters. The Lodge reminds us that we live within the cycles of the Earth and Moon. When we honor our wombs, we honor the Great Mother. Remembering and recreating these ancient ceremonies will bring right relation to all children of Earth. Perhaps, eventually, Moon Lodges will once again become respected women's places in our communities.

When women started their cycle, they left their homes and families to go to the sacred introspective space of the Moon Lodge. The Lodge was honored and respected by the entire community, for the dreams and visions of the moontime women brought vital survival information such as planting and healing knowledge and guidance on community relations. When there were questions that needed to be answered, the women would go to the Lodge and ask the Ancestors. All questions were always answered by the Ancient Ancestors. The entire community benefited through the powerful gifts of the women's bleeding cycle.

Adapted from Songs of Bleeding by Spider


In the sweet territory of silence we touch the mystery.
It's the place of reflection and contemplation,
and it's the place
where we can connect with the deep knowing,
to the deep wisdom way.


--From a talk by Angeles Arrien
author of The Four-Fold Way


How might your life have been different, if,
long ago when you were
still a tiny child,
long before you began to come to the Women's Lodge

as the normal cycle of your life, you had been brought here
especially
by your mother and aunts...
and you and your girl cousin entered shyly

into this place you had overheard so much about?

And, after the fires were lighted, and the drumming, and the silence,
you heard, for the very first time, what the women called the
Naming..each woman speaking slowly into the stillness, sharing her
feeling of how she saw her life and what she wished to say of it...sharing
it with the women around her...weaving the threads of her life into a
fabric to be given and named

And, as the shadows of the day lengthened into dusk, and you leaned
your head against your mother's shoulder, you pondered in your heart
a different sense of a woman's life.

How might your life be different?

--Judith Duerk
Circle of Stones


Show up or choose to be present.
Pay attention to what has heart and meaning.
Be open to outcome, not attached to outcome.
Tell the truth without blame or judgement.


--Angeles Arrien,
The Four-Fold Way
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.